"When shall we marry?"

“When shall we marry?”

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Yes!

“When shall we marry?”

A man said to me after a few initial text exchanges.

“Wow!”

I was thinking he’s love bombing me jokingly.

“Hmmm…”

I was intrigued to see how this would unfold.

He’s very intelligent, successful with deep rooted purpose of helping people elevate their lives.

I am a free spirited person who stays quiet in observation mode when I go on dates.

I am a Sagittarius who loves freedom.

As a woman, I was there to receive and be in the comfortableness of my femininity.

Half way into our date-

I felt suffocated by his constant need of wanting me to validate him with eye contact.

“Eyes on me!” he said.

I felt pressured.

I didn’t feel I was given time to truly experience the ambiance of the restaurant.

To witness the joyful people around me.

I couldn’t breathe.

And his constant talk of what I can do to elevate my coaching business was unbearable.

“You should do this….!”

“You should do that….!”

“You can do them ALL!”

OMG!

I wasn’t there for a business meeting.

I was there to feel the romance.

Let’s reverse engineer this.

When we embrace and accept who we are, we would embrace and accept others for who they are.

Agree?

~ Love you more ❤️

Kolline

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