“When shall we marry?”
A man said to me after a few initial text exchanges.
I was thinking he’s love bombing me jokingly.
I was intrigued to see how this would unfold.
He’s very intelligent, successful with deep rooted purpose of helping people elevate their lives.
I am a free spirited person who stays quiet in observation mode when I go on dates.
I am a Sagittarius who loves freedom.
As a woman, I was there to receive and be in the comfortableness of my femininity.
Half way into our date-
I felt suffocated by his constant need of wanting me to validate him with eye contact.
“Eyes on me!” he said.
I felt pressured.
I didn’t feel I was given time to truly experience the ambiance of the restaurant.
To witness the joyful people around me.
I couldn’t breathe.
And his constant talk of what I can do to elevate my coaching business was unbearable.
“You should do this….!”
“You should do that….!”
“You can do them ALL!”
I wasn’t there for a business meeting.
I was there to feel the romance.
Let’s reverse engineer this.
When we embrace and accept who we are, we would embrace and accept others for who they are.
～ Love you more ❤️