Please help me!!!
Please help me!!!
My friend’s daughter, Adrianna, reached out to me yesterday.
5 months ago, her mother asked if I could talk to her daughter whose going through a hard breakup.
She’s 20 years old.
I got on a FaceTime with her.
“Can you help me identify if he’s a narcissist, like my dad?”
Wow, at that instant.
It’s all coming back to me.
As my ex husband was diagnosed to be an overt narcissist.
Her first boyfriend demonstrated all symptoms of an overt narcissist.
I remember clearly we did some exercises to help her heal to move on.
Back to yesterday.
She texted me.
“I have some questions, should I text you or may I have 5 mins of your time,” she asked politely.
“Sure, let’s do it,” I knew it can’t just be 5 mins 🤣.
“I came across his recent pic on social media,” she claimed.
“Why are you still following him?” I urged her to block him.
“Oh, I did block him but I saw a pic of him on my other friend’s IG,” she continued.
“Ok, how did you feel?” I asked.
“He’s going downward spiral. He looked angry & drunk,” she said.
“Honey, it’s not your fault you’ve healed and he hasn’t. I know you have so much empathy towards him but it’s not your responsibility to help him heal,” I had to make it clear.
I sensed she’s feeling guilty that he hasn’t moved on but she did.
I then used the following analogy.
What do you do when someone falls into a quick sand?
Or perhaps, throws himself into a quick sand?
She escaped the worst, by making a conscious decision to walk away from him, 5 months ago.
We were able to minimize the pain he inflicted onto her.
“All we can do now is to wish him well and pray for him,” I said.
“The Universe:God’ve heard you and appreciate your kind heart, sweetie,” I acknowledged her.
I urged her to continue to move forward with her life.
She asked a final question.
“Will I be able to prevent myself to get involved with a narcissist in the future,” she asked.
“Trust your intuition. You’ve successfully walked away from one, didn’t you, sweetie?” I said.
I continued with.
“Go back to the soulmate list we came up with, remember the “positive” traits and feelings you are looking for in your future partner,” I reminded her.
“He’s on his way. It’s done. It’s done. It’s done,” I said.
The only thing she can do is to NOT look back or keep looking in the rear view mirror.
Thoughts create reality.
What you think about-
Even the fears you have..
Or the past relationships that you continue to reminiscing (good or bad)-
You will continue to manifest..
Back into your reality.
Look forward, my loves~
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～ Love you more ❤️