Online Dating Can Be a Great Way to Find True Love as Long As You Know What You Want - Kolline Lee Coaching

Online Dating Can Be a Great Way to Find True Love as Long As You Know What You Want


Haven’t we all heard of the many stories, whether they’re good or bad, about online dating? There are many people who have found their true love by meeting their mates online. And there are many people who have had bad experiences which left them traumatized.

Below are a few tips on how to excel in online dating:

1) Create an online dating profile that accentuates who you are through “show”, not tell. For example, give a detailed description of who you are, what you are looking for, and paint a clear picture through your profile where women can visualize the life you want and how they can potentially fit into your exciting life.

2) Don’t weigh too heavily on women’s profile pictures. Instead, read their profiles thoroughly, and ask the right questions to find out who they are. Learn what they want to achieve in life, know about their hobbies, their family life, and their “envisioned” future so you can better understand if you can eventually see a future with them and integrate your lives together.

3) Be clear on what you want, and be transparent on the values or characteristics you are looking for in a woman. Don’t budge on important values, as they are the foundations of a strong relationship to determine if you are a good match or not in the long run. For example, if you want children and she does not, don’t waste your time to start a relationship, then try to change her mind. Or if you want to retire soon and love traveling the world and she is more of a homebody, don’t expect her to change. Be sure you are clear in all the important criteria you are looking for and don’t expect people to change to cater to you. This will save you a lot of time and energy. It is better to stay single until you find someone who could be a complementary match than rush into relationships with the mindset of “hoping for the best” and compromising on the important qualifications of what a good fitting mate should possess.

4) Be aware of scams or fake profiles. Profiles that have pictures that are unclear or a single picture with short descriptions are often scams. In addition, women who immediately try to lure you by sending nude pictures or asking for money are all warning signs of online dating scams.

5) Be positive and enjoy the dating experience. If you text a potential date and you like what you’ve shared, schedule a call with her to hear her voice and converse with her over the phone. You can feel her energy and mindset far more from phone conversations rather than just through texting. When you meet, be your authentic self in order to fully embrace the experience. Focus on enjoying the moment instead of being outcome driven (will she come out again?). Be open-minded in listening and tuning in to her needs or body language. Relax and have a great time.

6) Be authentic of who you are: you won’t get what you are looking for if you can’t be honest with what your needs are. Don’t play games. Be honest and real and if you are looking for a long term relationship, be confident and communicate that. If you are looking for a short term relationship, be transparent. Don’t assume or hide your intentions. You never know what she is looking for. As long as you are being truthful, you will most likely meet the potential women who can suit your needs much faster than if you were to jump to conclusions or not clearly state your intentions up front.

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