HOW TO BE MORE ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR SOULMATE (YOU’VE NEVER MET) - Kolline Lee Coaching

HOW TO BE MORE ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR SOULMATE (YOU’VE NEVER MET)

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As a dating coach, I know women are more attracted to men who feel whole. Because men, listen up, your soulmate should not and will not complete you; you complete yourself. She’s just the perfect cherry on top of the pie. The key to being your most attractive self is to start really shaping up like the finished product.

And these are some of the most valuable ways I coach men how…

KNOW YOUR PASSIONS

True happiness is attractive – which is why having interests and passions is so important. Start off by finding what makes you happy. Whether it’s a unique hobby, quirky side hustle or local sports team; make room for it in your life. Maybe you enjoy golf, live music, off-roading or visiting wineries. Find the thing, or things, that spark joy in your life and invest time in them. Continue to invest and make time for the things that make you happy no matter your age or circumstance. When you meet your soulmate, you may even be able to invite her into this world you’ve created. Being passionate about something is not only attractive, it’s infectious.

BE KIND

Kindness radiates – it speaks a universal language and is extremely attractive. Prolonged periods of singleness can force men and women to become very introspective. As a love coach, I teach my clients to look outwards and take stock of what they have in life, before even meeting a woman. In doing so, they learn to be kind to themselves and the world around them. They also learn to show kindness in future relationships. We all know watching kindness in motion is a wonderful thing, so be compassionate and try to show a little kindness every day. A positive outlook and a gratitude for life is one of the most attractive qualities a man can possess in matchmaking.

INVEST IN YOUR PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS

Platonic relationships are sometimes overlooked in pursuit of romantic ones. However, your friends, co-workers and family who make up a big part of your present, can often affect your future too. Investing in platonic bonds can be incredibly attractive to a woman or future soulmate. In matchmaking, I always encourage clients to nurture all the people close to them. Some men may have large friendship groups, whilst others may only call a few people or family true friends. So ask yourself, who would I be proud or excited to introduce a partner to in your life? Who should I make more time for at the moment? Because whether you decide to merge or keep your friendships separate in the future, women gravitate towards men who cultivate long-lasting, successful relationships.

PLAN AHEAD

One of the most attractive things a man can demonstrate is a vision of his future. Do you set yourself short term challenges or long term goals? Do you have a place you want to travel to or a career move you want to execute? Understanding what you want to achieve or experience in life, and taking steps to ensure it happens, is really fulfilling. It is also extremely attractive to a potential life partner. The ability to plan or think ahead demonstrates to a woman you are mature, thoughtful and goal-orientated. If you know what you want out of your journey and have a clear direction, your love life is more likely to move in the right one too.

Women want to see the full pie before they’d ever be willing to grab a slice.

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